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Tuesday, August 2, 2016

How to Become a Successful Writer: part 2--Michelle Lazurek

Excited to welcome Michelle Lazurek to my blog for part two of my series on how to become a successful author. Read her five pieces of advice below and check out her new release here:

Five Pieces of Advice for Aspiring Writers

A lot of people ask me, “I am an aspiring author and want to write a book. What advice would you give me about how to go about it?”  Although I’m still learning about this process, I can say I have learned a lot in the seven years I have been a writer. Here are five of my best tips to becoming an author:

1)     Writing is a calling, not a hobby- I say this because a hobby is what you do in your spare time. Often people think they can scribble to some quick words, click the publish button and they will magically become an author. In some ways, that is true. But I have also learned that the thing that separates authors and writers is calling. Writers jot down words on a page, but don’t always want to do the hard work of editing, marketing and publishing their books. An author is the one who toughs it out, no matter how much time, money and resources they need. The calling is what gets an author out of bed and at the computer. Writers stare at a blank page after a year; authors hold their shiny books in their hands.
2)     Platform is king- No matter what anyone tells you, it is simply not enough to have a great idea or even be a good writer. Both of these help, but it’s not what puts your proposal into the hands of a publishing board. The clincher is and always will be if you can sell the books you write. The bigger your outlets for getting out your message, the better.  However, after seven years, this still remains an enigma to me. There is no magic formula to becoming an author large enough to become published. But hard work and hustle do help. Speaking engagements, guest posting on largely known sites and driving traffic to your blog all expand your platform, helping you to build it plank by plank.
3)     Read. Write. Repeat- If you don’t read, you’ll never hone your craft. Who are some of the most memorable writers you know? What makes them good writers? The only way you’ll know that is if you read their work. Reading about the mechanics and process of writing also help you develop your skills.
4)     Utilize those around you- in the words of the Beatles, we get by with a little help from our friends. Critique groups, editors and mentors all help you develop your skills effectively. Find people in your area (either in person or online) and meet regularly to discuss writing. Give them your word and solicit feedback. Isolation never helped anyone; constructive criticism from a trusted group of friends does.
5)     The book is the marathon; the blog is the sprint- One of the first pieces of advice I give to anyone is to start a blog. Wordpress and blogger both have free hosting sites to help you get started. Pick a topic and write everything you can on it. I mean everything. Write until you know nothing else about it. Establish yourself as an expert. Then branch out into other areas of writing interest. You’ll spread yourself too thin if you write about a bunch of random topics. Pick a topic you know well and tell the world about it. When you finish, post your work to social media. Get the word out about who you are. Slowly, you’ll build an audience that no matter how big your platform, will always gather to hear your message.

Michelle Lazurek is an author, speaker, pastor’s wife and mother and loves to help people reach their potential. She has been published over one hundred times for places such as Christianity today’s Gifted For Leadership,, and Charisma Magazine. She teaches at writers’ conferences and mentors new writers. Please visit my website 

Monday, July 25, 2016

How to Become a Successful Writer: part 1--Richard McCuistian

I'm excited to welcome Richard McCuistian to my blog for part 1 of my series, How to Become a Successful Writer. I loved reading about how he ventured into the article world as well as the novel world. Writing for periodicals is an often overlooked venue for those looking to make a career of writing.

A Lifelong Love of Reading and Writing

By Richard McCuistian

In the 1960’s there was nothing I’d rather do on a Sunday afternoon than read a book, so down the church hallway my Sunday shoes would carry me clopping on those ancient oak planks to invade and peruse the church library, where it seemed I could always find a good book to read. I still remember the musty smell of the old books in that place, how checking volumes out was done on the honor system, and the library door was never locked. The tiny room was lined with shelves and had a single table at the end under a frosted glass window. For some reason, Nancy Drew mysteries were my favorites from those crowded shelves (I could never get interested in a Hardy Boys book), and I could read a book in an afternoon, even when I was in elementary school.

I have always loved libraries.  Once I went with my older sister to the library at Fort Rucker – she sixteen and I was fourteen at the time, and she was doing a research paper.  Since she was going to a library I hadn’t visited before, I was tagging along.  While she researched (we couldn’t check anything out because we weren’t a military family at the time), and the Alabama sun receded behind the pine trees on the western end of Fort Rucker, I read an Edgar Rice Burroughs novel called The Lad and the Lion. I was reading the last page when she finished her research, and she was rather stunned that I had managed to complete the book before we left that evening.

It wasn’t as if we didn’t have books at home; my mother had a floor-to-ceiling bookcase in the room I shared with my brother Mark (all shelved alphabetically by the authors’ names), and when I was in the fourth grade Mrs. Cassidy asked if anyone knew the names of any famous authors.  Somebody in the class mentioned Mark Twain, and somebody else mentioned Shakespeare.  When she finally called on me, I had a lot of names to share.
“Robert Louis Stevenson, Louisa May Alcott, Alfred Lord Tennyson, Zane Grey, Edgar Rice Burroughs, John Steinbeck, Ernest Hemingway, Ralph Waldo Emerson, Victoria Holt,…” on an on I went, and the list was so distinguished that she later told my mother that while she didn’t want to stop me, she was astounded at how many authors’ names I could recite from memory. 

I had read the spines of my mother’s books as a boy because one room of my bedroom was nothing but a huge bookshelf, and right up until she died, she collected books and read every night before she went to sleep. Dad said that if he ever put up an empty shelf somewhere in the morning, Mom would have it full of books by that afternoon.  We lost Mom’s original collection of books in a house fire back in 1970, and we lost another library of her books – along with my mother – this past October of 2013 in a different house fire.

I just turned 59, and I discovered when I was in high school just how much I enjoyed putting words in a row to teach, tell a story, or share information. I also wrote poetry, and a couple of songs nobody sang but me, but then, I didn’t expect those to go anywhere. 

I have forty years under my belt working as a professional mechanic, the last fifteen of those years as an automotive instructor at a small college, and so I write technical articles for Motor Age magazine and have since May of 2000. That writing pays well. 

These days, I write a 2000+ word Sunday School lesson commentary every week, and I’ve been doing that ever since 2003.  I also publish 25 copies of a trifold handout I put together every week, but I just pass them out at church, and everybody seems to like them.

Before that, I wrote Bible lessons for the mechanics and car salesmen I worked with at the local Ford dealer.  For about two years I published a 33 copies of 3 lessons a week and gave them out at work.  But then I discovered something – when I wrote my lessons story form, more people read and enjoyed them, and so I started writing stories a lot of the time, every one of them with a Christian theme.

My Christian fiction stories got longer, and I generally tried to craft a surprise ending and/or some kind of spiritual lesson that could be learned.

The first short story I wrote that appeared in print was a story called Scars that I sent to a local college to be considered for a literary journal.  Scars was included, and it was the only Christian story in that entire journal, and some (if not most) of the Christian message I had written into it had been edited out, but there it was – I had something in print that more than just a few people might eventually read, because it was between the covers of a book.  I had poured a lot of myself into that story because I lived through most of it; I just wrote a different ending to make the point I was shooting for.

The first book I had published was a Christian Fiction novel that is available on Amazon right now both in paperback and for Kindle entitled Digital Superman. I published that one through Publish America (now American Star Books) because I didn’t see any point in paying somebody hundreds or thousands of dollars to put a book in print, and Publish America publishes your book for free without editing it.  And they do a really good job. All I had to do was do two book signings, which I did, along with a TV interview about the book, which I wasn’t required to do. Sadly I have colleagues who have paid massive amounts of money to companies who promised to make their books best sellers. Those dreams were never realized and, while their books are in print, that money will never be recovered.

And while Digital Superman didn’t sell a zillion copies, everybody I know of who read it really liked it, but most of them never wrote a single review on Amazon, and most people won’t buy or read my books because they don’t know me as an author.

One of the dreams many authors have is to be able to write books for a living – well, I’ve earned enough money writing for trade magazines to have built and paid for a new house, because I take my love for wordsmithing and storytelling with me into my technical articles and I have a LOT of fans in that crowd – 140,000 repair shops all across the country.

Since Digital Superman, I have published eleven other books on Amazon for Kindle, to include a couple of trilogies and a collection of short stories, all Christian fiction.

For me, writing is a creative outlet, even if only a few people read what I write – I enjoy crafting the stories I write, creating and developing the characters, and I enjoy putting a little something for just about everybody in the books I write.  I try to come up with original plotlines that aren’t predictable, characters that are (hopefully) dear to the reader’s heart, and stories that are fun to read and uplifting (with the exception of one short story I wrote, which has a powerful message, but isn’t a lot of fun).

My most recent work is a novel called Born Out of Time that is available on Amazon. My daughter’s review pegged it as my best story ever.

I like to instill my female characters with great character, beauty, and strength, and I try to craft my male characters as men of integrity and honor. And let me say that a story just doesn’t work well if there isn’t an element of romance or attraction, but I stay away from anything lewd or racy.

If there is a pastor in the story I write, he is typically a heroic sort of fellow who is generous to a fault.  I despise how so many TV shows and novels paint Christian ministers as evil and heavy-handed.

For me, writing and publishing novels is a hobby of sorts, nothing more – if God sees fit to have my books sell lots of copies, so be it. But I plan to write in a way that honors my Creator.  Always.

Check out Richard McCuistian's books at:

Richard McCuistian has three children and seven grandchildren and lives in South Alabama with Lynne, his wife of nearly 24 years.

His day job is teaching Auto Mechanics and with his wife he teaches two Sunday School classes each week and is also a free-lance technical writer for trade magazines in his spare time.

Saturday, July 23, 2016

How to Become a Successful Writer

Ever wondered what it takes to become a successful writer? Over the next few weeks, I will be hosting a variety of different authors on my blog as they talk about their writing journey and how they reached what they define as success.

I meant to run this series at the beginning of July, but this cute little fellow got in the way.

Baby Chip

He's really too adorable not to forgive for my lack of promptness, don't you think? Or at least that's what I'm hoping my guest bloggers think. ;)

#successasanauthor #babychip #write4aliving

Saturday, July 2, 2016

Announcing Baby Chip

After months of uncertainty, he's alive. He's ours. We get to keep him!

Always trying to take his cords and shades off

He's even healthy, aside from the half-starved from IUGR and anemia/bilirubin issues. APGAR score of 8 or 9 coming out, breathing on his own, (unlike Joe-Joe who got an APGAR score of 4), and eating on his own.

Baby Chip's currently getting a small blood transfusion because of anemia due to my Rh negative antibodies attacking his Rh positive red blood cells.

 His bilirubin, the byproduct of breaking down red blood cells, is a problem too because of my antibodies, hence jaundice lights and immunoglobulin injections.

The neonatologist said at this point they most likely won't have to do the more dangerous large transfusion where they swap out all his blood for new blood and get rid of my antibodies, but will be able to manage the anemia with lights, immunoglobulin, and possibly more small transfusions. The doctor will take this more conservative route because it is much safer, but it also means we will be hanging out at NICU on jaundice lights days after Baby Chip is big enough and otherwise healthy enough to come home.

Top Baby Chip quotes:

Joe-Joe, after peering at the baby: "He's much bigger than I thought he would be." (Guess we talked about Baby Chip's smallness a little too much. :)

Daddy and Joe-Joe to me the day before labor: "If it weren't for you, we would name him Woodchuckletree."

Me looking at Baby Chip: "Are you sure he's mine? He's so BLONDE."

Black-haired, brown eyed Joe-Joe
Blonde-haired, blue-eyed Baby Chip

The less than socially in tune doc immediately after delivery: "Next time, I suggest you find a Rh negative father." :P

NICU is exhausting and un-fun, and it's sad that I can't hold Baby Chip much because of the jaundice lights, but unlike when we were in NICU with Joe-Joe's meningitis, nothing scary is happening. All the top doctors and geneticists at the research hospital have yet to find anything wrong with Baby Chip and he doesn't even have clubfeet, just a little curvature that stretching will fix.

So, worst case scenario, I have to sit here a couple extra weeks and waste a perfectly lovely summer not sleeping in a dimly lit cell while Joe-Joe has Daddy bonding time. So we are persevering and praising God for answered prayer.

Note: Baby Chip is not his real name. Baby Chip does have a real name. If you want to know his real name and are not a stalker or child molester, feel free to privately contact me or Gabe and we'd love to tell you his name.

Wednesday, June 8, 2016

5 Things NOT to Do on Your Honeymoon

Originally posted on The Writing Prompts Crew

As the summer wedding season kicks off, so do summer honeymoons. If you’re counting down the days until your honeymoon or know someone who is, here are some quick tips to make sure your special week is a success. Purely hypothetical advice, of course. Not in any way drawn from personal experience. :)

Our Wedding 7 Years Ago

1. Use the Do Not Disturb Sign
Sure, growing up you saw that little white thing with a door knob hole punched in it as just a useless piece of paper. Trust me, it’s not. Use it. Or perhaps the evening of your wedding you thought, oh I’ll wake up early and hang that up in the morning.
Procrastination, a mortal flaw.
On the bright side, you will only make this mistake once. Ever. In your entire life.
2. Trust Reviews
If a hotel’s reviews say ‘lovely place, but not good for honeymooners,’ don’t think oh they meant other people, not us. We are adventurers. This will be a wonderful hotel for a honeymoon. The reviewers could know something you don’t, such as the hotel staff is entirely INSANE.
Speaking of crazy hotel staff . . .
3. Do Not Cook Microwave Popcorn
I love popcorn. I wanted to introduce my new husband to this passion of mine, so I made a bag of microwave popcorn. Unfortunately, I didn’t watch the microwave timer. The popcorn burned.
No biggie. I threw it away.
A half hour later, the crazy hotel staff rushed our room. Not just one of them, hordes of them. The lady in charge glowered at me. “I smelled smoke. Are you burning down our hotel?” She gave me the evil eye, as if to say, I’ve been warned of terrorists like you.
“Uh. We made microwave popcorn. It smoked.”
“I see smoke marks on the shower.” She glared at me.
Really? From one bag of popcorn? “I’ll scrub them off.”
The hotel staff ripped open the microwave door as their gazes flicked around the room, looking for evidence of other nefarious deeds we might have done in their absence. “Look at this! Popcorn stains on our microwave. You’re replacing that entire microwave for our hotel.”
“I’ll scrub the microwave. I’ve cleaned burned popcorn from a microwave before.” Besides, most of the yellow scum in the microwave wasn’t even from me.
“No, you can’t.”
“Yes, I really can.”
The entire horde of hotel staff crossed their arms. “We’ll believe it when we see it.”
“Alright.” Cue several hours scrubbing a microwave of not only my popcorn, but every previous tenant’s popcorn. Just how we wanted to spend our honeymoon.
Learn your lesson here. Don’t cook microwave popcorn on your honeymoon. Maybe just don’t cook anything. Your brain’s probably not fully functioning this week anyway.
4. Sunscreen EVERYWHERE
And I mean everywhere. You know that adorable bathing suit you bought just for your honeymoon? Skin that’s never seen the sun before burns easily–really easily. You don’t want burnt skin on your honeymoon. You really don’t. Don’t be like me. Use sunscreen.
5. Imagine Two Screaming Babies
No matter what delays and less than perfect planning interrupts your honeymoon, you will instantly have an entire new appreciation for these days of your life if you try this simple exercise.
a. Walk into the shower. Close the door. 
Did someone scream? Did someone twist the handle? Did someone pound on the door and yell “Mama, Dada, I’m lonely!”
No? You’re having a great honeymoon.
b. Put food on your plate. Lift your fork.
Did someone scream? Did someone throw peas on the floor? Did someone jump out of their chair and start sticking their fingers into electrical sockets?
No? You’re having a fabulous honeymoon.
c. Sit down. Put your feet up. 
Did someone scream “Mama, Dada, I fill in bodily function a toddler needs cleaned up“? Look down at your shirt? Is there any kind of small child’s bodily function on it?
No? You’re having a wonderful honeymoon.
Enjoy your honeymoon. It will end all too soon.

Monday, June 6, 2016

Baby Chip: The Last 4 Weeks Inside

The next four weeks all revolve around Chip's middle cerebral artery (MCA). The bloodflow through that artery is the standard to see to what degree my blood is attacking Baby Chip's blood and making him anemic by killing off his red blood cells.

Joe-Joe at one week old

Just like water flows through a hose faster than a Wendy's frosty, so too anemic blood is less viscous than regular blood, so flows faster. At least that's my understanding. If a baby's blood is flowing too fast through his brain, then the doctors suspect anemia. The only way to know exactly how anemic a baby is though is to stick a needle into his umbilical cord and draw out some blood. Baby Chip's blood is flowing too fast through his brain and I almost got sent for a transfusion today. But in the end, his blood wasn't flowing significantly faster than last week so the doctors are holding off a few more days.

The other thing the bloodflow through the middle cerebral artery can show is a CPR score. This score is related to Baby Chip being so small, under the 1%, and shows if a baby is in distress at all. Apparently, the CPR bloodflow number will start showing signs of wear and tear even before the baby's umbilical bloodflow starts deteriorating. It got a little worse from last week, but not enough to necessitate a delivery. Today, Baby Chip's umbilical cord bloodflow was awesome, once again practically normal. The doctors are still waiting for it to get worse since it was so terrible at 24 weeks (absent flow) and still very much less bloodflow than what should be up to about 30 weeks. The Maternal Fetal Medicine specialist running Baby Chip's research study, who pioneered the use of sonogram to diagnose specialty things in-utero,  is examining sonograms of my placenta this week to see if he can come up with an explanation for why the bloodflow got so much better.

He also did some extra measurements for the study today. He looked at Baby Chip's brain through the hole in his skull that all babies have and sent off videos of his heart to another specialist. Apparently, IUGR babies (babies less than the 10%) are at risk for heart issues such as hypertension and their brain can show changes due to oxygen deprivation, not life-altering brain damage or anything, but enough to affect say a child's SAT score.

So that's Baby Chip. I have seven more scheduled doctor appointments (2x a week) until the doctors absolutely will bring him out to the open air. Whether he's allowed inside me the next four weeks  or not is entirely up to him. Praying he can keep chugging and we can eke things out until 37 weeks. Oh and Baby Chip gained weight. Up 11 oz in the last week to 3lb 6oz. :) Now to make it to four pounds. #growbabygrow

And the sonogram shows Baby Chip has hair. Any guesses whether he'll inherit black or blonde hair?

Tuesday, May 31, 2016

Baby Chip Goes to the Hospital

Baby Chip's bloodflow through his umbilical cord is good, practically normal, which according to the doctors is amazing since his bloodflow was absent at 24 weeks. If anyone wants the long-winded explanation of that, I can give it. Just comment below and I'll tell you what my IUGR specialist said. Baby Chip didn't grow hardly at all for the last two weeks though. Still 2lbs 11oz. His head still grew, but he lost belly fat.

He also looks anemic by sonogram (1.67 MoM, if that means anything to you.) The docs redid my antibodies against baby blood's score and it's still 2,000. It shouldn't be more than 4, which means my body is quite capable of killing Baby Chip's red blood cells and making him deathly anemic. His little spleen is also enlarged, which is a sign that it's working too hard because of anemia.

So tomorrow, Baby Chip and I go to the specialist hospital for the blood transfusion specialist doctors to make a final decision about whether he should get a blood transfusion. I feel like I've met every pregnancy specialist in Denver by now, though I know that's an exaggeration. :) The transfusion could cause an emergency c-section if baby goes into distress. There's also a small possibility of fetal death. If the docs don't do the transfusion, they'll have to yank Baby Chip out into the open air in less than 2 weeks since my doctors won't let babies go past 34 weeks with this kind of anemia going on and no transfusion.

All in all, life stays crazy. Special shout out to Joe-Joe who attended three doctor visits in the past eight days and been a trooper about them all (and he didn't even go to all our doctor appointments this week.) Appreciation for my husband who is entering the busiest two weeks of his work year starting this week and still trying to make doctor appointments. Thanks to my parents who have helped so much with doctor visits and Joe-Joe etc.

Apologies to all the people in my writing and counseling work life who are getting far from my undivided attention at present.

Meanwhile, listening to: